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| Me, Erik & JF. |
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| Tony, Erik & JF. |
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| Me, Erik & JF. |
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| Tony, Erik & JF. |
The Fourth of July quilt is now at home with my friend Bob, who lives near the seacoast in Maine.
We "met" over 20 years ago when I was at a seminar for our ERP software. I had recently installed an upgrade that had gone badly, and had needed some help. At the seminar I complained that the bug I had found had NOT been fixed online and I didn't want anybody else to encounter the same problems I had had. During a break, two gentlemen approached me. Their company used the same software and were planning an upgrade in a few days. Would I be willing to talk to their IT guy and tell him what to do?
Of course I would.
The next day I spent an hour on the phone with Bob, and told him what to do.
It worked, and the next week he called to thank me. It turned out we each had skills the other lacked. This began a long relationship. If I was stumped I'd call Bob and he'd help me out. When he had questions he'd give me a call. Bob was funny and I could call him if I needed to vent, and he'd listen. Whenever there was an upgrade, we'd go through the details together and report back with our findings.
I think it was ten years before I met him in person. Every single year on my birthday, I would get a call from Bob, and he would sing to me. Every single year on his birthday I did the same. He always made me laugh.
Bob moved from that job to another, and then another. We still kept in touch. During the pandemic, he knew I was alone and working from home. He'd call or we'd chat or FaceTime. On those lonely holidays, I'd get a text and he'd ask if I was OK.
Last spring, when I was working on the Fourth of July quilt, he texted me and asked how I was. We went back and forth, and then I sent him a picture of the lighthouse panel I had bought and decided to use on the back of the quilt.
"Which lighthouse is that?" he asked. I replied that it was probably a generic lighthouse, since it didn't look like any lighthouse in this area. We New Englanders tend to know our regional lighthouses.
We signed off, and I looked over at the quilt and the lighthouse panel.
New England.
Seacoast.
Lighthouse.
Friend.
Right away I knew I would give the quilt to Bob. I thought he might be embarrassed, so I thought some more. Then I worked out how long we had been buddies. It was 1997 or 1998. That's well over 20 years.
In all that time Bob has never forgotten my birthday. He has always made me laugh and smile. That was enough. When the quilt was done, I put it in the mail and sent it to Bob in Maine.
It arrived on Thursday.
"This is really cool," he texted, "but I expect to see a bill."
No freaking way, I texted back.
"You really are a beautiful person... Thank you, thank you, thank you."
We went back and forth. "20 years," I said, "Actually I think it's closer to 26" he said. "I should ask you how to wash it."
I told him in was in the document I sent. "Read it. There will be a quiz later."
Later I got another text, "I will get you a nice grandma rated picture of me and my new quilt. I love it, it is gorgeous. I would like to use it on my bed as a nice top cover, but it is so nice I am afraid to use it... I like the book you sent with the story. That is really cool. Did you know that one of the things my wife and I would like to do when we retire is to go see all the lighthouses in the East Coast?"
On Friday I got another text. "I want you to know I showed your quilt to several people and every single one of them thought it was beautiful and well made.
"Thank you again."
Update: I added the photo Bob sent me wrapped in his quilt.
This is J, who's been cutting my hair for over 32 years. I've told her about my cat Millie, my blog, my quilts, my tutorials... everything. After all this time I consider her a good friend. Good friends deserve quilts.
When I went in last night she saw my big bag. "Did you bring a quilt to show me?" she asked.
"No, I brought a quilt to GIVE you."
"YOU'RE KIDDING."
Nope. We unfolded the quilt, careful not to let it touch the floor and pick up any stray hairs (If you don't know, you can get a sliver from a piece of hair. It's worse than a wood sliver, and harder to find to remove.) "OMIGOD, It's GORGEOUS. I LOVE IT."
Naturally I had to ask a zillion times if she really did, if the colors were OK. J was thrilled, and said repeatedly that she would USE the quilt.
I had created a PDF file of the story of the quilt, and copied it along with all the photos of the quilt I took while I was making it and a copy of the Zebra tutorial to a flash drive for her so she could study them all when she had time. "All quilts have a story," I told her, "and now you will know the story of this one." I also included a box of Color Catchers, which I give whenever I gift a quilt.
What was really funny (to me) was I had decided to gift the quilt to J several weeks ago, but didn't have enough time to complete the binding before my monthly appointment. So I sat there while she cut my hair, holding in the secret that NEXT TIME...
It shouldn't, but every time I gift a quilt it always surprises me how good I feel afterward.
The Waltzing Matilda quilt has safely reached its new home in Sydney, Australia!
I love to see my quilts in different locations, and there sure aren't any palms in New England in the northeast corner of the US.
Megan said, "the quilt is, of course, absolutely wonderful..." and that it was welcomed with "the thunderous applause it warrants." She says it has been given pride of place on the lounge where it will be used throughout the winter.
For me, this smile says it all. We make, and give, quilts because of the "Sheer Love Units" they generate.
Mission Accomplished!
and Chris (who quilts my quilts, her blog is Quilting4U)
I ordered one for Chris, and one for Julie. Once they arrived, I had to figure out how to present them in a way that would be special, fun and memorable