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Friday, June 6, 2025

Critical Mess

 I was talking to my friend about being retired, and she said it takes about a year to figure it all out, and I have come to believe she is right.

My whole working career I was doing so many things at once that I always kept a very well stocked kitchen pantry, but now that just seems a bit ridiculous, so I have been meticulously planning my menus and only buying ingredients I need for the meals I have planned. I figure it's going to be a while before I get down to the bare shelves, and it will be MUCH easier to find things in my freezer, but that's my plan. The side bonus is that my grocery bills have been much smaller, and that's been fun.

While working through my pantry, which lives in the closet in my office, I've also realized I've got papers and boxes and stuff in there that needs cleaning out, so I've been spending an hour in there each day going through stuff. Today I found a stack of old pay stubs from 2018!! Needless to say those went directly into the shredder.

There are Art books I may never need, so I have to rethink all those too. And I found, count them, NINE boxes of notecards! I think getting that room reorganized will take all summer. That's OK. It's overdue. I've got a TV in there, and I can stream something mindless while de-cluttering, so I don't feel like a lazybones when I sit down on the couch and actually WATCH something.

I've been listening to the tennis at the French Open (Roland Garros) and that's always fun. It means I haven't been getting as much reading done, but that's fine too. I have to keep telling myself that I am retired, and I earned this time off, so I don't have to feel guilty if I am not as "productive" as I used to be.

I don't know what my next quilt project will be, but I have decided to let that sit for a bit and not worry about it.  (Ergo, pillow covers.)

I've also been writing the quilt stories of quilts I have gifted in the past. That's been fun and interesting. I'm glad I was blogging because half the time I go back and read about what I was doing and discover things I had completely forgotten.

The garden is shaping up. The zucchini is doing well, as are all my herbs, but the basil and some of the peppers do not seen to like being planted in the ground. So I moved them to pots and have my fingers crossed.

I have been trying to walk at least a mile each day. Very easy in my neighborhood, except for when it rains. After my walk, I water the garden. On not so hot days I go out later and weed and do the other things the garden requires,



As I was cleaning the studio after my pillow cover making extravaganza, I found this fabric. Don't remember WHY I bought it (except that it so reminds me of Millie...) but I realized it would make a perfect pillow. So I stopped cleaning and made the pillow. 

Working on a jigsaw puzzle is the perfect thing to do while listening to the radio. This is the most recent.

So that's what's been happening in my neck of the woods.


7 comments:

  1. Millie on your pillow, that was my first thought. Retiring, longer days I thought, time to do all those things I didn't have time before, I thought, lazy days, I thought!!!hen reality struck like a tornado. Tidying a cupboard, shredding old papers, all sounds like a very good plan.Soon you will really relax and not rush to that timetable any more.

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  2. Perfect Millie pillow! And note cards……I found boxes of them too. I hear you about feeling guilty about not being as productive. I am so enjoying working on puzzles, sewing when I want and walking everyday, something I never did while working, but it is amazingly good for my mental health…..and my cholesterol numbers have improved as well, so bonus!

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  3. Hello. I've been enjoying your blog for a long while.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on getting used to retirement. Such a change in how we see ourselves and our place in the world.
    So surprising to see ways that parts of life have been "on hold" during working years.

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  4. I am retired almost 5 years now and each year is a little different. I am just entering the decluttering season and thinking about what I am holding on to. I have a thought to write the stories of my quilts and maybe do a little book with a picture of each quilt. Your pace feels very gentle. Enjoy.

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  5. We are all different. For me, I was fully retired about 4 months in. It had to be longer than my 3 months off for my 1st knee replacement. I was just 58 so I needed to be certain it was right before my RN license expired. I made ZERO plans for 5 months. No travel, no concerts, no events...simply BE. Read, write, stitch/quilt, alot of walking and then? Covid hit month 6 and I could NOT travel, attend concerts-buggers.

    In 6 weeks I begin year 7 and life is FABULOUS! I love to cook, garden, sew, quilt, walk, see new places, visit family, attend concerts and anything else that comes to mind. I can say YES to girlfriend last minute invites (all my friends still work). I love an empty calendar and cannot comprehend all the retired folks saying "I am so busy I don't know how I had time to work", like it's a badge of honor. Not this girl. My motto: I do what I want, when I want, if I want :-)

    Happy retirement and Happy Stitching.

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  6. Re your sentence "I have to keep telling myself that I am retired, and I earned this time off, so I don't have to feel guilty if I am not as "productive" as I used to be" - DH struggles with the "productive" part where I figure keeping the house in order, the laundry done, the pantry and fridge ready to prepare meals, and a stack of art/quilt projects (and books to read) and I'm good. Kudos on your hour a day to clear out - we've all kept much too much along the way. Keep going!

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  7. I love the Millie pillow. I'm trying to declutter a couple of things a day, reduce the piles of stuff that accumulate.

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