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Monday, March 17, 2025

Rough Day

 We all have good days, and sometimes we have bad days. Sometimes we have both. On Saturday I had both in the same day. The good stuff, I will write about later, but I'm going to start with the bad part, and you'll figure out why as you read. It's basically a cautionary tale.

Saturday was National Quilting Day and I spent the morning having fun at the Night Owl Quilting Studio. That was ALL GOOD.

My car was parked a block away, and down a side street. I waited for an SUV with a storage container attached to the roof drive past before I attempted to cross the street at a crosswalk. Now, it's March in New England. The ground is thawing and this causes the pavement to buckle and break. We call them frost heaves. They create potholes, and uneven pavement.

You can see where this is going.

Alas, I did not.

I tripped and fell face first into the (very fortunately rarely traveled) side street. I watched as the pavement got closer. I fell with both my palms flat on the street, but that did not stop my head from hitting the pavement. Somehow I also fell against my side.

I was startled, to say the least. I rolled over onto my back and tried to get my bearings. I looked over and realized I was in the street. I sat up. The young woman driving the SUV had turned around, parked and came toward me. "Are you OK? Are you hurt?"

I had a lump on my head just above my eyebrow.

My left side hurt like hell. I had abrasions on both palms and the ball of my right palm was bruised. My glasses were scratched.

I looked up at the young woman. "I think I'm OK. Can you help me get up?" She took my hands and pulled. That was when I realized my feet were twisted underneath me. We paused, I shifted and then I was upright. I collected my purse and shopping bag. (Or maybe she did.)

"Are you OK," she asked again. I nodded. "Are you sure?" Yeah. I nodded. She wasn't convinced. In retrospect, I should have rested a bit, but I was in shock (I think) so I gathered my stuff and headed toward my car.

At home, I got my lunch ready, and took two Advil, then called my DIL to wish her a Happy Birthday. After the greetings were exchanged, I told her (and my son and DGD, they were on speakerphone) about my tumble. I knew I had to tell somebody. Obviously they were very concerned.

I reviewed my injuries. I didn't have a headache, I hadn't lost consciousness. I could take a deep breath without excruciating pain (meaning no cracked or broken ribs). All my fingers wiggled just fine without pain, and aside from being sore I was OK. We talked some more and they signed off. I went into the studio to work on the purple quilt.

A few hours later my son sent a text. I balked. So I called my friend, and after a brief discussion, I decided to head to Urgent Care. By this time I five hours had passed.

At Urgent Care, a nurse called me over. The short story was they didn't see any point in seeing me. "After the age of 65, any fall with a head injury; the standard procedure is to get a head scan. We can't do that here, so you should go to the ER. Even if we do see you, he's going to recommend you go to the ER and get a head scan." I hesitated. Saturday night at a the busiest ER in the state. Yuk. The nurse sensed my hesitation. "At your age, with your injury, they won't keep you waiting long." (Remember I'm 70.)

OK. I left and started to drive to the hospital, then decided to call my mother to tell her. She suggested I drive to her house and go to the ER with Mike (her boyfriend.)


I got to the ER about 7:30. By 8:15 I had been checked in. At 9:00 I was brought into Intermediate Care. About forty minutes later I saw a doctor. We reviewed my injuries. He wanted to make sure I didn't have any glass in my eye. (I didn't.) 

Did my back hurt? No
Did it hurt if I moved my head side to side? No
Was I nauseous? No
Did I have or had I had a headache? No
He asked me some other questions. All my answers were negative.

"I don't think you cracked or broke a rib (yes, he checked). I don't think you need a head scan.

"BUT! If you wake up in the middle of the night in pain and dizzy and nauseous, you have to come back here and get a head scan." (Translation: you shouldn't be alone overnight.) He had to go get something and he'd let me think. I called my mom. "Oh, no, no, no. Get the head scan. Know for sure. Then if you are OK, you can go home and sleep in your own bed." (We had already decided that if I was to go home that Mike was driving me and I could collect my car the next day.)

The CAT scan took 5 minutes. I'd have to wait 45 to get the results.

The results were negative. My head was fine.


So at 10:40 I was waiting for Mike to come pick me up. I hadn't had dinner, so I asked him to bring me to McDonald's where I grabbed a filet-of-fish and some fries. I was home by midnight and slept in my own bed.

The next morning I got up and made breakfast. Mike called at 9, picked me up, and we went to his house where I collected my car and drove home.

Turns out the head scan isn't 100% proof I was OK. I would be 100% OK when 24 hours had passed after my fall and I had none of the scary symptoms. 

24 hours later I was fine, and in fact, headed to bed for a nap and to rest my aging, stiff, sore body. I slept three and a half hours.

SO: Moral of the story is....
We're getting old, ladies. Watch your step, particularly out of doors where the pavement might be uneven and tripping hazards are plentiful. In many ways, I was very lucky.

Because I wanted to end with something happy, here is a photo of my granddaughter flying a kite I sent her. That's my son checking it out. The kite cost me eight bucks on Amazon, so for very short money they got to have a good time, and I got to see.

9 comments:

  1. After such a good start to your day, it disintegrated into a fall, and no doubt very sore ribs and hands. Thank goodness you didn't break any bones, but even so this will take time to heal. Rest well, and if not up to actual sewing, just pat the fabrics gently. XXX

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  2. Lynne, thank goodness you're okay. I took two tumbles within six months: tripped over a garden hose and broke my right wrist and then, when that was all healed and I thought life was back to normal, I tripped over the vacuum cleaner hose and broke my left shoulder! I'm slow to learn my lessons, I guess. That was a year ago, when I was 70. You can believe that I am very careful now, more so than ever, where I place my feet for every step! You will be too. Wishing you speedy healing and sending gentle hugs~

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  3. I'm 71. Always try to be careful. Isn't technology wonderful

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  4. I am 84 and believe me, it doesn't get better. We just don't pick our feet up as high as we did when we were younger because our joints are stiffer. Uneven ground is our enemy. I'm glad you are OK.

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  5. Very glad you are okay - I fell a year or so ago while carrying a large, awkward pumpkin. It and I both landed on the ground and I ended up with stitches behind my ear (from my glasses and/or headband between my skull and the ground). Yes - we do have to be careful. I'm delighted that the woman in the SUV stopped and checked on you - that was very good of her.

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  6. I’m impressed the woman turned around to check on you…..there are good people in the world. So glad you didn’t suffer a concussion or cracked ribs but it’s always prudent to get checked out, if for no other reason than to give our loved ones peace of mind.

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  7. Very glad you got checked out and that all you have is some aches and pains. A few years ago, Pat Sloan fell and broke both of her wrists! I've been taking Tai Chi for Seniors for the last three years and it has definitely helped with balance issues.

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  8. I think a fall is what I am the most concerned about. I make it a point to hold onto every railing, make sure I always see my feet, and talk to myself outloud to avoid doing something stupid. I am 71. I know falls can cause all sorts of problems besides the initial injury. I find I pay attention to myself when I am in motion and not let my thoughts drift into some more fun and productive. Good for you getting checked out although it was a pain.

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  9. Hi you, I came here from your latest post to read about what exactly had happened to you. I am a bit obsessed with fear of falling now at 73, God knows what would happen. Especially your head! But it sounds like you are fine and there is comfort in having it all checked out. Here in the Ottawa area with our icy winters, something like a thousand falls are logged every week. It is a real concern.

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